Depending on the type of society you live in, there’s a different understanding of what perversion is. For example, the liberal western world accepts all kinds of non-traditional behavior, while some countries around the world with more traditional practices see this is as blasphemy.

Either way, it is proven that all people have a different understand and ideas of what good sex means to them. Some people’s ideas are more convenient and others go far with their desires.

There are hundreds of different kinks and fetishes. Some of the most common ones are group sex, spanking, domination, anal, foot fetish, BDSM, voyeurism, etc. See more about it on this link here.

To answer the question if it is normal, scientists took a lot of research and surveyed lots of people. The psychiatrists also managed to ask some questions on the subject they came to the same conclusion. The kinks appear in people before the age of 10 when sexuality is still not developed in the form that is practiced later in life.

Kinks developing during this time are connected with the experiences people had with certain situations and people that they found interesting or displeasing. These experiences made a tremendous impact on their way of thinking and the impact was so big that it changed the later understanding of sex too.

The most interesting part of this is that fetishes and kinks never stop to appear, develop, or change. As we enter the phase of teenage and we first experience our sexuality more broadly, we also develop fetishes and sexual interests depending on the way this sexuality is nurtured.

In other words, if some things are forbidden by our parents or society, we will surely react to this by protesting and developing some kind of outburst that will follow us until later years. See more about these changes here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed.

However, when we grow up and other interests take over our lives, we might change these interests and abandon some of the kinky thoughts and desires we had previously. Experiencing an unpleasant situation during practicing some of the kinks may result in an understanding that this is not what we wanted, so we won’t like doing it in the future.

Are we supposed to let our kinky thoughts become reality?

If you’re living in a liberal society, your first answer would be – of course. However, the term kinky thoughts and fetish needs might be very different from one place to another. As we said, some parts of the world are not going to tolerate non-standard sexual behavior.

Somewhere, even different sexual orientations are completely forbidden, so you need to know what your society is going to approve. If you live in a place where you might become outcast just because you like BDSM, for example, it would be wiser if you keep this to yourself. Practice it only with people who think the same and in places where no one will see you.

Living in a liberal country, like the States, Canada, or most of Europe, gives you a lot more freedom for this. Expressing yourself through the personal image, clothes, social networks, and others is completely allowed.

However, be sure that kinks and fetishes only go so far. Some things are still considered strange and sick. Even liberal societies have a line when it comes to allowing everything. Think about things like dendrophilia, zoophilia, pedophilia, necrophilia, and many other things that might even put you in jail for expressing them publicly.

Things may change for this in the future no matter that a lot of people will think that this is simply disgusting. Remember that people used to think about many other things that were disgusting a few centuries ago.

Conclusion

The conclusion is clear – it is completely normal to have these thoughts. It’s normal to practice kinky sex too. Human sexuality is far more developed than the one in animals. This is why we’re the most developed species on the planet by far.

Practicing intercourse as a form of entertainment and fun is what makes us humans. So, if you have a certain wish for something that is not considered traditional, go ahead and do it. It’s completely normal.